I'm shocked at how you have all so easily rolled over and rationalized not wanting Prox chat because they won't give it to you.
For example, my friend says to me to other day, "hey, let's do some fun challenges like play squads only using crossbows and melee weapons." the rest of my squad responded that it wouldn't be as fun without prox chat to say funny things to the other people before they murder us all. We ended up not doing this because no prox chat... Were we trying to "troll"? I don't think so, more like trying to put smiles on people's faces.
All this crying about being Trolled...i charge tax on the Erangal bridges, kids, with or without prox chat to let you know.